The last few decades have seen an explosion in the interest of mindfulness. This is on the back of promising research that demonstrates practicing mindfulness has great benefits to health and wellbeing.
It is for this reason and many others I have decided to write on the topic of mindfulness. I thought a good starting point would be to focus on two important questions. What is mindfulness? And how do people cultivate mindfulness?
What is mindfulness (or mindlessness)?
I think to better understand mindfulness, it is worth looking at the complete opposite, mindlessness. I think most of us can relate to examples of mindless moments in our daily lives at one time or another.
Maybe you have experienced a time when you forgot someone’s name after just hearing it or a time when you had difficulty remembering the details of something that just happened. Maybe you have experienced times when you got lost in your thoughts and feelings or found yourself doing multiple tasks at once instead of focusing on just one task at a time. You may even have experienced times that you were thinking about something else which distracted you from what you were doing.
Periods of time when we are distracted or not paying full attention to what we are doing in the present moment tend to be a normal characteristic of being human. This is mindlessness.
On the other hand, when we are talking of being more mindful or mindfulness, we are referring to the opposite. Professor Jon Kabat-Zinn describes mindfulness as a ‘way of being’. And defines it as ‘paying attention in a particular way – on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgementally.’
Mindfulness is about ‘being in the moment’. Focusing on the experience of your thoughts, emotions and physical sensations that are happening here and now. Paying full attention to the present moment helps you to disengage from previous patterns of reacting, or in other words break free from habits.
An important aspect of mindfulness is the quality of ‘without judgment’. Permitting the observation of your experiences without judgment, which enhances curiosity and acceptance, and allows for enhanced tolerance to distress.
How do people cultivate mindfulness?
The breath is the foundation of all mindfulness practices. Though mindfulness can be cultivated in many different ways, the most common technique is mindfulness meditation.
Dr Lisa Ciechomski says there are numerous ways people can choose to practice mindfulness.
“… through yoga, meditation, tai chi or through sport, a hobby … it’s good to talk about mindfulness in its broadest sense, really paying attention to the here and now.”
A key aspect to cultivating mindfulness is becoming aware of our thoughts and observing them. When practising mindfulness for the first time a person can be shocked by just how active their mind is. Even the most experienced meditation teachers will still have busy minds when sitting for meditation.
“They don’t try and push those thoughts away. The key is not to do anything but observe and this is the part that I think can only be understood through practice.”
“It’s not an intellectual concept … this is about being, observing our thoughts, perhaps making note of the content, recognising the story, ‘oh yeah, there’s that thought about work …’, observing it then watching what happens.”
With practice people begin to notice there may be some space between their thoughts.
“That’s quite a nice discovery for people, to realise there can be spaces between our thoughts.”
However, it is with this discovery that there can be a state of not thinking, that some people may become agitated or worried. This is where an experienced teacher is necessary.
“People need reassurance that this is normal, that the mind can be in this state.”
When first learning to meditate people also begin to notice how judgmental and hard they are on themselves.
“They become aware of that critical inner voice and that can also be upsetting for people. They are realising just how judgmental and just how hard they are on themselves. They need reassurance to know this is normal as well and it won’t always be that way.”
‘Life does not consist mainly – or even largely – of facts and happenings. It consists mainly of the storm of thoughts that are forever blowing through one’s mind’ (Mark Twain)
**Excerpts included were taken from an interview I conducted with yoga teacher and psychologist Dr Lisa Ciechomski.
– Michael